As the overall slowing down happens, the frequency of unconscious habits and pulls is clearly seen and there is a clarity about how these function. The clarity can only come when inherent energy in separation is loosening up which is a random event which appears entirely on its own and is beyond any causation. (No person can make this happen since the person is itself the expression of the belief in separation.) Only then does it feel that we are able to see what is happening instead of being what is happening without awareness of it. This is when choice seems to appear instead of just unconscious doing and feeling etc. There is also a seeing how cultures, genetics etc get formed - through heavy unconscious patterns that inherently wish to continue. But as presence and awareness become more and more conscious - there is infinite potential on how perception can happen. This is called choice. This is where matter softens and starts to merge with space. And can now therefore acquire any shape (relative and momentary of course). Since the core material of all matter as a separate persistent thing was simply an unconscious belief only. Focus now is suddenly softened with conscious awareness and all happening through that focus is fresh and divine and yet easily able to dissolve instantaneously without adding to the memory track creating genetic or cultural habits or tendencies in separation.